How to Redefine Yourself and Become a More Powerful Woman?

Redefining yourself and working on yourself can be a life long job. But we learn while we’re alive and some things become much clearer over time. We can notice that we have a bad habit of not listening to our body, feelings and thoughts. As soon as we acknowledge this as a problem to be solved, recreating yourself as a woman who is strong and confident will be the only logical solution. Here are some tips that will help you redefine yourself.

Redefining yourself and working on yourself can be a life long job. But we learn while we’re alive and some things become much clearer over time. We can notice that we have a bad habit of not listening to our body, feelings and thoughts. As soon as we acknowledge this as a problem to be solved, recreating yourself as a woman who is strong and confident will be the only logical solution. Here are some tips that will help you redefine yourself.

Know That Pleasure is Important

When we think of powerful women, we often forget that they are also people who can crave affection and pleasure. Sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands and powerful women aren’t afraid to admit that. With so many different sexy toys like dildos on the market who else needs a man to fulfill their wishes?

Of course, being in a relationship can bring you a feeling of closeness and mutual support. But when it comes to sheer pleasure, and there’s no man in sight, why not pleasure yourself? By doing this not only can you re-discover your body, but you will also have a deeper understanding of yourself. You will know exactly what you need and how to get it.

Some of the traits powerful women possess are exactly this. They always know how to get what they want. And are not afraid to ask for it. You probably already know that orgasming releases endorphins which as a result brings you happiness and satisfaction. Which then in return makes you all the more irresistible and magnetic.

Speak Your Mind

Being an opinionated woman can sometimes be a sword with two ends. You want to be heard and to be able to express your opinions but at the same time, you don’t want to leave the impression of a know it all. 

This can be easily avoided by staying on the subject. Expressing your opinions about the world, politics or the economy are very important and can be insightful. But if you’re not entirely familiar with the subject, it’s better to keep your opinions to yourself. Powerful women aren’t afraid to ask for help. They know that by doing this they will only become more educated resulting in a more solid opinion.

Nevertheless, if you do still want to express yourself although you’re not entirely sure, you can. Just remember to express in a manner that’s curious about what others have to say. You can learn a lot about your style of communication this way.

Own Your Feelings

Sometimes women can become afraid of their feelings because they don’t want to appear weak. But owning your feelings and understanding them can actually help you claim your power even more.

You wouldn’t restrain yourself from expressing joy, so why would you when feeling sad or angry? But there are some limitations. Bursting out in anger is first and foremost bad for you and your overall emotional life. When we let anger or sadness devour us we may become a threat to ourselves. It’s normal to feel this way sometimes, but we should always ask ourselves where do these feelings come from.

Maybe you are angry because of some mistreatment you experienced at work. You should ask yourself what it is exactly that triggered this feeling. Your emotions can show you where your boundaries are by acknowledging them you will know how to set them properly. Furthermore, when you listen to your feelings and don’t shut them away, your intuition will rise resulting in a better sense of your environment and yourself.

Work on Your Charisma

Charisma is one of the key traits confident and powerful women poses. It’s a mix of all of the things mentioned above. It’s the full understanding and accepting of yourself, your opinions and emotions. But how can that be charisma?

Charismatic women are attractive but not necessarily in a physical kind of way. It’s a kind of inviting charm that inspires devotion in others. People love people who are genuine and who are not afraid of themselves. That’s why being in tune with your body, mind and soul are so important for charisma.

Even women who have anxiety can be charismatic. They learn how to work around their feelings of anxiety. For example, if you feel awkward in a situation you can easily slip out of that feeling by turning your awkwardness into humor. You become aware of your flaws and make them work for you.

Just think about Jennifer Lawrence for a moment. She admitted hundreds of times that she feels awkward and anxious in certain social situations. But she turns around anxiety into humor which makes her human and charming.

Know When to Walk Away

Saying no to certain situations and people will make you feel liberated. Learning how to say no can be one of the toughest lessons you will need to learn. Especially if you’re used to pleasing people.

There’s nothing wrong with being good to people and getting out of your way sometimes for others. But constantly having this kind of mentality will make you feel depressed, used and unsatisfied. You should learn how to politely get out of situations that make you feel uncomfortable. Whenever you find yourself in a situation that you think is not good for you, think about the best way you can get out of it.

This goes for any social situation, work-related and in relationships. When you learn how to walk away from certain people, situations and start doing what you really love and are really passionate about. You will become 100% liberated and satisfied.

Final Words

Becoming a person who is stronger and better can sometimes be tough. But if you truly want to become a woman that is powerful, strong and confident, no amount of difficulties will take you down. You will dust your self off and continue on your path to becoming a strong and compelling lady.

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Saeed Ashif Ahmed is a Blogger who has a keen interest in how emerging technology can help the world become a more just, equitable, and kind place. He enjoys interviewing CEOs of tech startups asking them what they are doing to bring greater opportunity and equity to our society.

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