Do you know the quality of your life depends on the quality of your relationships?
Are you seriously committed to your customers, colleagues and beloved relatives?
Have you ever focused on your relationships to make them strong and happy?
Your relationships are the pillars of a meaningful life.
People sometimes think it is their business or work that requires an investment of their time but they often forget even if you become a millionaire you will need people who love you to celebrate your life.
The secret of immense success is to build a close relationship with your customers, mentors or influencers.
Most opportunities of our lives rely upon these relationships.
So if you want to learn how can you develop amazing bonding with the people you work in the office and live in your society?
I am sharing 10 brilliant rules of prosperous relationships and you can choose the rules you think will work for you.
Become a world-class Listener
Do you ever wonder why only a few persons out of hundreds are able to become your friend?
Why are they so close to you?
Because they listen to you. Your stories matter to them that is why you feel so connected together.
This can be one of the greatest lessons of your life if you listen to someone carefully and ask the right questions then it means you are genuinely interested in his life.
And I am not trying to teach you how to pretend as a good listener because that is not going to help you.
Instead, I want you to become one.
If you have been a part of a debate at your home then you can easily understand that both parties involved in the debate never listen to each other. They actually wait till other speaker stops and start proving their own point right.
You have experienced it. Right?
So the best way to build a relationship with your boss, your team member or your life partner is to listen to their problems, suggestions, and stories they are dying to share with you.
Stop comparing people
Your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend might be intelligent, beautiful and perfect for you. But now they are not a part of your present anymore.
Now someone else lives in your heart.
It is not a time to repeat the mistakes you did.
Forget the past and do not compare the lifestyles, talents, and characteristics of people around you if you want to be happy and satisfied with your life.
Sometimes I meet people whose behavior for me is courteous and respectful but with waiter or janitor, they become so rude and angry.
If you observe it in your actions too, you must change it otherwise you won’t really have any true friends.
Appreciate each and every effort made by others
Do you celebrate your achievements?
Yes, that’s good. But do you also celebrate other people’s accomplishments with the same enthusiasm?
It doesn’t matter if it’s your home or office whenever you get a chance to recognize someone’s effort, applaud them as much as you can.
Handle the mistakes
Make people feel better when they see you. Instead of finding mistakes look for the things they have done the right way and then ask them to work on their mistakes.
This way you will not hurt their ego but will inspire them to work hard and perform better.
Smile and you will win their hearts
Sometimes you follow some principles that don’t make any sense in real world.
When I ask someone to smile more, they ask why should do they?
Why? Really. Do you need a big reason to smile?
Is it that expensive or something?
Smiling has the ability to make strangers your friends. So when you smile do it wholeheartedly.
It will help people liking you and they will feel safe with you.
Look into their eyes
Remember making a proper eye contact when you talk to people.
It shows your sincerity that you are equally interested and enjoying the conversation.
Show courage to initiate the conversation
When you are going to your office in a bus or coming back from a foreign trip in an airplane you get the chance to meet many people.
You know that a single conversation with a right person can even change your life.
But we fear a lot to just initiate. Because of this fear of rejection, we lose many opportunities that life gives us.
It just takes a simple ‘Hi’. Do not hesitate, Almost everyone enjoys to talk.
So next time you travel I need your lot of selfies with strangers on your Instagram account.
You can do this.
Have no expectations
Oh! You and your expectations.
In our relationships, the reason for disappointment, sadness, and failure is the expectation we have with people.
You do a number of things for people every day.
But the problem begins when you seek fruits for your actions.
For example, if you buy your friend an expensive gift on some occasion you expect him to do the same for you someday. Don’t you?
When it does not happen that way it affects your relationship.
So you should manage your expectations as you will be happier without them.
Excitement is a required ingredient of your relationship
Do you know how to keep a relationship exciting all the time?
Become creative with the things you do to make people happy.
Learn the new things your partner is crazy for.
Plan a trip together to an exotic place. Find new ways to admire the qualities of people that you love.
Explore new challenging activities that you can enjoy with your family and friends.
Otherwise, you will lose the spark of your relationships.
Live in present
I will say bye to you with my favorite thought on the relationship.
Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you’re in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad. – Nick Cannon
Please share this article with your friends.
Have a great life ahead.